The handfasting ceremony, a tradition often associated with Wicca and other pagan practices, is a form of celebration of the union between two people. Here is how it generally takes place:
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Preparation and decoration: the ceremony space is prepared and decorated, often outdoors to connect with nature. Altars are sometimes set up with symbolic objects, such as candles, crystals, flowers, and elements representing the four elements (earth, air, fire, water).
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Entrance of participants: the participants, often dressed formally or in ritual attire, enter the sacred space. The ceremony may begin with a purification ritual, such as passing through incense smoke.
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Opening of the ceremony: an officiant, who may be a Wiccan priest or priestess, opens the ceremony. He or she may invoke the elements, the cardinal directions, or deities to bless the union.
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Exchange of vows: the partners exchange their vows. These vows can be personal and written by the partners themselves. They express their intentions, hopes, and commitments to each other.
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The act of Handfasting: the central element of the ceremony is the moment when the partners' hands are tied together, often with a ribbon or cord. This is where the term "handfasting" comes from. This gesture symbolizes their union and commitment.
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Blessing and closing: the officiant pronounces blessings and closes the ceremony. He or she may thank the deities and release the elements.
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Celebration: the ceremony is often followed by a party or banquet to celebrate the union.
